Community News for Caregivers

May 2023


May is Mental Health Month - 2023 - Take Some Time to Look Around, Look Within

May is Mental Health Month

As caregivers, we are often reminded to take care of our own needs, but it can be difficult to coordinate our mental health alongside the needs of the person we’re caring for.  If regularly setting time aside for yourself feels overwhelming, another strategy can be to optimize the environment you are already finding yourself in.   A healthy home environment can be a boost to your overall mental well-being, especially if it’s harder to get away than it used to be.

Mental Health America outlines four options for optimizing your home space.

1. Practice Tidiness: Neat and tidy spaces can help to improve feelings of calm and clarity, and reduce feelings of stress, fatigue, and anxiety.  Keeping your entire home tidy may feel unachievable, but consider setting aside a room (or even a corner of a room!) as a ‘mental calm zone.’

This could also be a task to delegate.  If hiring housekeeping services isn’t within budget, tidying a couple spaces could also be a task for a family member or friend who wants to help out.

2. Make Your Bedroom Sleep-Friendly: Quality sleep can have a protective effect on your mental well-being.  Optimize the temperature, light, and noise levels in your sleep environment for your particular comfort level.  If the person you are caring for is needing your support during the night, consider:

Being in regular communication with their medical provider about incontinence, pain, or other nighttime needs.

If incontinence or urgency are regular nighttime challenges, consider ways to shorten awake times, like using a handheld urinal or bedside commode, tapering liquids at the end of the day, asking for a medication review, and adding an extra layer of absorbency to clothing and/or bedding.

Asking for overnight help.  If someone else (friend, family, or paid provider) can provide regular (or even occasional) support at night, you may be able to rest and recharge to more fully engage the next day.

3. Create Comfort: A calm and supportive space can help to reduce feelings of anxiety and depression.  Notice the spaces in your home that already make you feel the most comfortable and plan for ways to build on that feeling.  These could be small changes like adding favorite photos in the area where you change your clothes, using a favorite scented candle while bathing or toileting, or putting on music while preparing meals.

4. Check Air Quality: Higher oxygen levels can boost your mood and reduce your stress levels.  Going outside, opening a window, or using an air purifier can all help, in addition to adding breathing exercises to your routine.  Be sure to check the day’s air quality rating (https://www.airnow.gov/) before spending too much time outdoors, particularly in the summer.

5. Set Yourself Up for Success: Remove as many barriers as you can.  This may look like setting reminders, preparing yourself the night before for a smoother morning, or asking others for help.  But remember that your healthy home environment will look different from another person’s; you are optimizing the space for your own needs!

You can see Mental Health America’s full list of Healthy Home recommendations here.

Resources

From the Family Caregiver Alliance:

  • Depression and Caregiving
  • Taking Care of YOU: Self-Care for Family Caregivers
  • The Emotional Side of Caregiving

From Mental Health America:

  • Feeling Lonely in a Crowd
  • Mental Health Resources for Caregivers
  • Neighborhoods & Towns
  • The Outdoors and Nature
  • Safe and Stable Housing

Announcements

Options Counseling - Is it for you - Elderly Hispanic couple
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Handyperson Recommendations

Have you hired a fair, helpful, and trustworthy handyperson?  We are compiling a list of individuals who assist with home repair work in our community.  If you had a positive experience with a particular person or company and would recommend them to a neighbor, please share!
Complete our online recommendation form or call the Aging Helpline (919-968-2087) to submit your recommendation.

Advanced Directives - Contact the Aging Helpline
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FREE Nutrition Supplements

If you have NC Medicaid, you may be eligible to receive free oral nutrition supplements, like Boost or Ensure. Contact the Aging Helpline for more information at 919-968-2087.

Upcoming Programs

Caregiver Education Series: Parkinson's 101

Join us to learn about what Parkinson’s Disease is, as well as tips, tools and resources to support someone living with Parkinson’s Disease. For more information or to register, contact Kendall McMillan (919-245-4278, KMcmillan@orangecountync.gov)

  • Wednesday, June 7 at 10:00am at the Seymour Center

Dementia - Let's Talk About It
Join OCDoA’s dementia care specialists for a conversation around topics related to dementia education, living with cognitive change, and being a dementia caregiver. We will provide 15-30 minutes of education at the start of the hour, and the remaining time will be spent in conversation, Q&A, and resource-sharing around the day’s topic. Contact the Aging Helpline (919-968-2087) for more information and registration.

  • Tuesday, May 16 at 10:00am: Long Term Care Planning and Dementia, via Zoom

Support Groups
Support groups are a space to meet with other caregivers to share experiences, learn new skills, and get answers to questions about dementia and other long-term disabilities. We have resumed in-person meetings and have added a new Zoom only group.  

  • Chapel Hill Support Group
    • Contact Kendall McMillan to join - KMcmillan@orangecountync.gov or 919-245-4278.
    • 2nd & 4th Fridays: May 26 at 10:30am at Seymour
      • May 12 meeting is cancelled
  • Hillsborough Support Group
    • Contact Keisha Andrew to join - kandrews@orangecountync.gov or 919-245-2022.
    • 2nd Thursdays: May 9 at 1pm at Passmore
  • Zoom Only Support Group
    • Contact Lydia Arnold to join - LArnold@orangecountync.gov or 919-245-4276.
    • 1st & 3rd Tuesdays: May 2 & 16 12:30pm via Zoom
  • Hybrid Support Group for Mandarin Speakers
    • Contact Hong Zhou to join - hzhou@orangecountync.gov or 919-245-4275.
    • 2nd Thursdays: May 9 at 1pm at Seymour and via Zoom

Chapel Hill Parkinson's Support Group

This month's meeting will be slit goup discussions. Contact Kendall McMillan for more information and to RSVP.  

  • Carepartners Group: Tuesday, May 2 at 12:30pm, via Zoom
  • People with Parkinson's Group: Tuesday, May 2 at 2:30pm, via Zoom

Chapel Hill PSP & CBD Support Group

Support group for Progressive Supranuclear Palsy and Corticobasal Degeneration. This month's group will focus on open discussion.  Contact Jessica Shurer for more information and to RSVP.

  • Wednesday, May 3 at 1:30pm, via Zoom
Memory Cafe Pop-Up - May 30 - Seymour Center

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Contact Us

Aging Information and Referral Helpline - (919) 968-2087


For more information, resources, and services, please reach out to our team through the Aging Information & Referral Helpline:


919-968-2087

or

AgingTransitions@orangecountync.gov

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